Relationships can be one of the most meaningful and powerful elements in a person’s life. Though some may seem perfect, others may have hidden issues. A new column by Kelly Davis and Shane Rice, “That’s What She Said/That’s What He Said,” will help address these hidden and open dilemmas most of us face in our relationships. We will provide ways and advice on how to add communication, intimacy, and adventure. There are two sides too relationships; with that in mind Kelly and Shane will write from both female and male perspectives. In addition this column will allow readers to ask questions online and seek advice. Most people have to work consciously to master the skills necessary to make relationships flourish; allow this column to guide you and your partner.
Editor’s Note: The Montage does not condone or endorse illegal activity.
By Kelly Davis
– Copy Editor –
Getting Intimate in Public Places: Getting sneaky in order to get freaky
There is never enough time in the day to have sex. Men and women can sometimes get too wrapped up into their work and social lives, leaving no time to run home, where it’s private, to “get it on.”
Most lovers do not have the patience to drive all the way home, have sex, and go back to work. It would be much easier if they drove their passion elsewhere, even if it means being in a public place.
Public places such as parking lots, parks, movie theaters, bathrooms and elevators are some of the best locations to make out, play and possibly have sexual intercourse. They are discrete and no one seems to notice. However, it is important to keep a lookout for any peepers.
Parking lots can vary. Sometimes, they are crowded with cars and other times they are vacant. They may even have video cameras. Either way, there is a possibility that someone will see, so it’s important to keep a lookout. Also, watch movement when in the front seat so no one hits the horn.
Parks are excellent locations for passion late at night because it’s rare that anyone will be there. Men and women can easily be like monkeys on a jungle gym and discover their wild sides. Of course, police tend to arrest those at parks, so be careful.
Most people do not peep in movie theaters because they are too busy staring at the giant movie screen. They also don’t pay attention to what they can’t see, thus; sit in the top row near a corner and bring a jacket to cover any mischievous actions.
Bathrooms may seem disgusting because of germs, but this issue is simple to avoid. Find one that looks clean and a lock on the door. Make sure to try a position that does not require touching anything in the bathroom, like the floor or toilet. Let the women bend over, holding the sink while the man enters from behind.
There is not much time to get intimate in an elevator due to other bypassing people, so leave the elevator for those moments to kiss, touch and hold each other. Little moments like this can be a tease, causing hormones to run wild. Men and women’s desires will intensify, leading to more temptation throughout the day.
If lovers decide to go public and get naughty, make sure to prepare. Check to see if there is anything such as a towel to clean up any messes. Also, wear clothing that is simple to maneuver; skirts work well in cars and movie theaters.
There are several other locations to get intimate, like wineries and restaurants. Of course, it requires men and women to get imaginative and explore. Explore the forbidden, for it is better than sex at home, in a bed where there is no thrill of being spotted.
Men and women will find that sex in public places is rather erotic and beneficial for the relationship. It will open their eyes to new possibilities and ideas. Sex will be sensational. But don’t get caught.
By Shane Rice
– News Editor –
Public displays of lust
Today’s idea of sex in public has become a trendy and sporty act that requires a substantial amount of courage. The challenge of finding the most obvious locations or the thrill of getting caught can add something extra to a relationship — something potentially extraordinary.
According to the ABC News American Sex Survey, 57 percent of Americans have “gotten it on” in a public or semi-public place. While there are a select few men and women who want to make love on a 500 thread count, others seek a carbon-fiber hood or in a car while parked down the hill of a public facility. Yes, sex in public has no bounds or limits. However, there is what’s called “public sex etiquette.”
When wanting to explore outside the bedroom, keep in mind there are some places that should remain off-limits. The obvious: churches, elementary schools, elderly subdivisions and public pools (for sanitary reasons). But virtually anywhere else is fair game, provided no one gets caught.
One great place could be on a beach or a riverbank and if opportunity allows, a life guard tower. The benefits of a tower are being able to see if anyone’s coming, and if done at night, it can make for a wonderful view. Another good location is an open field. For years now, people and movies have used this idea to set romance. There is no sense in not taking advantage of their hard work. An open field can make a natural setting for romance with the flowers, lightly blowing wind, with the soft cushion of the grass. Blankets are recommended on any night with a clear, bright mooned sky.
When talking about good locations or times, it would be a shame to forget the sex-vacation-location adventures. This is a well known tactic but seldom mentioned. Simply open a map (it can be local, state or even country if the couple is feeling really adventurous) and pick a location to travel at random. Then while heading there, if in state or further, find random spots to explore each other. There is no need to stop there, once done at a given location, pick another and start again. This can become a yearly adventure and something couples can share with one another to grow closer.
While the world is endless with possibilities, imagination is a must. Also keep in mind when venturing out into the world of public exploits striving to constantly outdo the place before will get quite boring fast, so make sure to reserve the best places for those kinky-mood moments or those, “I need to get inside you” times.
Having sex in public needs to be done with a responsible mindset however it is illegal, be prepared to take on the consequences if caught, otherwise have fun and get creative.
